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Adulteress no more.

IM conversation and a question to the fellas…

September 22nd, 2006

Oz: YOU SUCK!
FG: I also swallow, but no one ever *accuses* me of it.
Oz: um
FG: };^>
Oz: <– completely lost train of thought
******

So here’s my question, what is it about the concept that makes guys lose all semblance of coherent thought? Is it just the blowjob aspect, because that, in and of itself, doesn’t seem to elicit the same reaction. It seems to be much more specific to the idea of swallowing.

I just don’t get it. I assume it’s because of my gender. So, enlighten me. Why is swallowing never an accusation?

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Something said (5) »

  1. i think i give good head, C really likes it, but if i don’t swallow, he has a fit! tells me its not that good. whiner. more power to you for your ability!

    Comment by dawn marie � September 23, 2006 @ 0:20 am

  2. For the same reason no one really accuses someone else of being a good person. A loyal friend, or devoted significant other.

    Accusations is normally seen by the whole of the species as implying a negative response. I don’t know any guys personally that believe that would be a negative.

    Comment by Zin � September 23, 2006 @ 0:51 am

  3. When I tell someone they suck I am not saying to them, you give oral sex to men. I am using suck in terms of being craptastic. Using it as a non-discript terminology for being bad, mean, not nice, etc. It is used in a completely non-sexual manor, although I suppose some people could interperate sexually.

    However when you elevate it to say, you swallow, it kinda just basically only a step away from calling someone something intentionally insulting, or accusing them of naughty things.

    If I were to go to a woman and say to them, you suck and swallow, I don’t think many would take that as a compliment, unfortunately I am pretty sure that most wouldn’t.

    For those however that would……..Fyregoddess has my contact info. ;-)

    Comment by Ed � September 26, 2006 @ 13:27 pm

  4. It’s never an accusation because we men are afraid of upsetting the delicate balance in the universe that keeps females swallowing. Even if its a guy throwing the insult to a girl he knows swallows, he wouldn’t acuse her of that. Because if he DID, then there would be zero chance of that female swallowing his load.

    Comment by mojotek � October 12, 2006 @ 18:00 pm

  5. So here’s my question, what is it about the concept that makes guys lose all semblance of coherent thought?

    I went looking for this conversation — can’t believe this was over a year ago!…

    We were not talking about anything sexual at the time, so that completely threw me for a loop. Second, you brought the conversation to “completion” - there was really nothing more I could say in response to that… I needed a nap, LOL!

    My philosophy has always been “Don’t ask someone to do something that you wouldn’t be willing to do yourself.” However, I typically apply that statement to the business-world.

    So, given that philosophy, I would not want someone to do that to my mouth, so I couldn’t honestly ask a woman to do that for me.

    I know I don’t fit the typical male stereotype… and I’m just fine with that. But, just because I won’t ask doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy it! (Is there a triple negative in there?)

    P.S. I wouldn’t be a whiner, either!

    Comment by Oz � November 11, 2007 @ 23:07 pm

Your turn.