I think that the success of blogs is not necessarily determined
at all by whether or not you have good content or a decent style. I don’t think it necessarily matters what, if anything, your topic is, but rather, who you know. I think that the more people you know, the more traffic you’ll have. The more people you know who *also* blog, the more links will exist to your blog. For example, Jason, I found your blog one day after reading a comment you made in
Al’s Words. I clicked the link when you said "I have a new blog, check it out." and I read it for days before you prompted me to finally reply. I left a link, which is not something I normally do… well, I’m picky about it at the very least, and the next thing I knew, you had a link to my blog on yours. I almost immediately returned the courtesy. That’s just how things tend to work in the blogosphere. One hand washes the other. (Just a random interjection here. I had originally written "blogsphere" because, to me, it sounds better and the
Google Toolbar’s spellchecker which does not recognize such words as "blogging" or "bloggers" changed it to "blog
osphere. I found that rather odd and worth noting.) The blogs I see that seem to get the most traffic are the blogs of teens. They don’t necessarily have much to say, or at least not much of social or political import… I’m sure it’s important to them, though, I remember being a teenager. They discuss the latest gossip and the homework they put off until the last minute. They speak in code (I guess it’s a sign that I’m getting old that I keep thinking some of these are in foreign languages, but they’re not, they’re in CODE!) and they tag each others boards with silly little comments that we, of Generations X and Y, would have had to call to say… or page to each other. LOL. I also think there’s something to memes. I’ve become fascinated with the concept of
memes lately. I’m not interested in playing those games, but it’s given me a great research project. The memes that I link to above are not what are commonly known as
memes within the blog community. Essentially, they are shared topics for those without the ideas to create new content. IMO, little more than a cop-out, closely related to the chain mail that plagues our inboxes.
"Let’s play a game… tell me your fondest dream, your favorite color and your very first pet’s name and I’ll… " well, it’s ME we’re talking about here. I’ll delete it and tell you to kiss my ass. (Well, I probably won’t
tell you that, but that’s what I’ll be thinking.) Back on topic. What makes a good blog, or even a great blog, is the person who’s writing it. It’s not about the people who read it, at least it shouldn’t be. If it becomes that, at least actively, then I truly believe that you’ve failed. I think you can wonder and question it, but more than anything, aren’t you questioning yourself and your motivations for doing it? I don’t know that there’s any more success to a blog than there is to a journal. If you fill every page of a blank book with secret thoughts and hopes and dreams, are you then successful? With a blog, there is no end to the pages… it goes on forever, so that measure of success doesn’t work. Writing every day, at least for people who have other things isn’t realistic. I mean, it can be, and it can work, but everyone gets caught up in real life. If you skip a day (or two or three or seventeen) does that mean you’ve failed? Can you measure success without an equal standard of failure? If not, then I think that most blogs that are written to some regular extent are ALL successful. Because I don’t believe that failure exists in blogging, unless you get sued for it. Yeah, I think you have to have clear motivations and an equal idea of failure to gauge the success of a blog. If you don’t have both of those, then any measure of success that you try to apply simply will not fit. Is it not enough to know that people care enough about YOU to want to know what you think or what you feel? I ask myself that question on a regular basis, my dears. Usually it is. ~FG };^>