Paul F Cavanaugh, 51, died on 1/15/07 after a short battle with lung cancer.  He was surrounded by family in his last moments and died peacefully in his sleep. 

 

He is survived by his three children, Jessica, Justin and Austin Cavanaugh; two grandchildren, Taran Shaefer and Tabitha Cavanaugh; three siblings, William Joseph III (Valerie), Sage and Patricia Cavanaugh; and 6 nieces and nephews.  He also leaves his partner of over a decade, Nicole Balant; and innumerable friends.

 

Paul liked to call himself a “Road Scholar” because of all that he learned in his travels across the country.  He was also a gifted musician (guitar) and songwriter, and was a founding member of several locally-renown bands with his partner of 20+ years, Deb Cavanaugh – General Eclectic and One Psy Fits All.  His travels spanned the continental US many times and allowed him to meet many different (types of) people.

 

He had a joke for every occasion; and specialized in “bad” jokes.  One of his favorite jokes was “Why don’t toads live in toadstools?  Because there isn’t mush room.  I know, that’s in really spore taste, but what can I say, he was just a fungi.”  He went for the groans over the laughs and nothing was sacred, but was always taken with the humor intended. He prided himself on finding the right joke for each person, including each of his cab fares.  He would strive to find the joke that would crack a smile on the most bitter of faces and took the positive reactions as his reward.  There was little that made him happier than cracking someone up, whether it was a stranger, a friend or a family member.

 

He had a fascination with numbers that started from an early age.  Born on 11/11/55 at 11:11am, he prided himself on that consistency.  His family believes that he timed himself on his internal clock to die at 11:11am – one month to the day after his diagnosis.

 

An activist, a Deadhead, a musician, a father, a jokester, a great guy.  There were many labels that applied, but none that sum up the man as a whole.  Rest in Peace, Paul Cavanaugh.  You will be fondly remembered by many and in many different ways.  “The good die young.”

 

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